Thursday, July 20, 2006

Grief and Loss

This is somthing that isn't new to me, and I'm sure that it isn't new to anyone else. But I know it is somthing that everyone, young and old, has to deal with at some point in their life. I didn't really know what was going on this summer, but I've figured it out now and I'm having to deal with it. It sucks, big time. I don't know what to do or who to go to, and it's always a lonely journey. But for anyone who is having to deal with this, I have to encourage you; DON'T WAIT! If you've lost somone close to you, or are dealing with any kind of greif, reguardless of what it is, deal with it now. Don't get five years down the road and then deal with it. It's not fun. And please don't make the same mistake I have by simply making yourself busy so you don't have to deal with the emotions. Anyone in his or her right mind should understand that your going through something hard, and if they are criticizing you, they have no right to. Don't just do everything you possibly can so you don't have to deal with the greif and pain, because believe me, it will only get worse with time fi you don't deal with it now.